1, eight no opposite sex
The years go by like a shuttle, time flies, life has a common saying, that is, "eight no opposite sex edge". The so-called "eight", refers to the traditional numerology of eight eight, including the year, month, day, time between the four columns of the combination of the heavenly stems and earthly branches. The term "Opposite Sex Karma" refers to the karma and mutual attraction between men and women. Therefore, the "eight no opposite sex edge" can be interpreted as the fate of a person for the lack of opposite sex attraction, the lack of suitable love object.
In many people's lives, this statement has become the reason why they explain their singleness. Whether male or female, when a relationship fails or when no friend has introduced them to someone for a long time, it is easy to blame it on the Eight Characteristics. This view has become increasingly questioned in society and has been rejected by many teachers.
It is untenable to say that the Eight Characteristics play a decisive role in whether or not a person is popular. In fact, social skills, personal charisma, hobbies and interests are more important in determining whether a person is liked by others. Whether you are male or female, whether you have good looks or temperament, as long as you have good social skills and a positive attitude, you will be able to attract the attention of the opposite sex. Therefore, it is too hasty to blame it solely on the eight characters.
The options for society to pursue marriage are vast. We live in a diversified and open life, we can expand our dating circle through various ways to find a suitable other half. Whether it's blind dates, dating, online dating, or marriage platforms, they are all effective ways for us to expand our opposite sex. Therefore, no matter how the eight characters, when the opportunity comes, as long as the courage to take the first step, I believe it is able to find a suitable for their other half.
The horoscope is determined at the time of our birth, and we can't change it. We can change our lives through our own efforts and positive attitudes. For example, improving our knowledge, engaging in more social activities, and cultivating our hobbies can make us more attractive and enhance our popularity. Therefore, there is no need to expect or rely too much on the eight characters, but to believe that our own efforts and dedication are the key to influence our popularity.
Of course, destiny is a complex and mysterious issue, and we can't fully predict and master it. Sometimes, the reason for being single may indeed be related to fate, but that doesn't mean that the eight characters are the only explanation. We need to learn to accept fate, cherish what we have and believe in our own value. Only by facing life positively and optimistically can we have a better chance of finding the right other half.
In short, both the eight characters and the opposite sex edge, are only one of the influencing factors, rather than a decisive factor. The Eight Characteristics is only a theory of destiny, which can't completely determine a person's popularity and happiness. In contemporary society, we should abandon the prejudice of fate, embrace diversified dating methods, and believe in our own abilities and charms. As long as we keep a positive mindset and bravely pursue our own happiness, I believe we all have a chance for a fulfilling love life. The eight characters can't stop us from pursuing love, and as long as we work hard to embrace life, happiness will come to us without us realizing it.
2, eight to see the opposite sex edge is strong but not at all
In this traditional ancient country, fortune telling in eight characters is widely spread and used. According to the fortune teller, we can roughly understand a person's character traits, fortune and other aspects, including the opposite sex of the strong or not. Sometimes we may find that even though the fortune telling chart shows that the opposite sex is going to be strong, it is actually not the case. Why is it that the Eight Characteristics show that the opposite sex is strong, but not actually?
The fortune telling is just a kind of Feng Shui speculation and estimation, not an absolute fact. The fate of a person's destiny and character is inferred through the four elements of the person's birth year, month, day and hour. This includes the prosperity or otherwise of the opposite sex. A person's destiny is influenced by many complex factors, not only determined by the Eight Characters. Therefore, the eight characters to see the opposite sex edge is only a hypothesis, you can not rely on it to assert that a person's opposite sex edge in the end is strong or not.
八字只是参考，实际操作中仍需靠个人努力。 Whether or not a person has a strong relationship with the opposite sex, the end result still depends on the individual's efforts and salvation. Even if the fortune teller shows that the opposite sex is strong, if one lacks initiative towards the opposite sex, has poor social skills, or has a narrower life circle, it is difficult to truly realize that the opposite sex is strong. Therefore, if a person does not have a good relationship with the opposite sex, it may be because he has some problems with the opposite sex, which needs to be solved by his own initiative.
The natal chart is only one possibility, and the influence of the external environment also needs to be considered. When we just look at the eight destiny plate, without taking into account the influence of the external environment, it is difficult to fully understand the actual situation of the opposite sex of a person. In real life, there are many factors that affect the likelihood of opposite sex relationship, such as a person's appearance, temperament, family background, financial status, etc. The Eight Character Chart can provide some information about the likelihood of opposite sex relationship. Although the eight destiny plate can provide some reference, but can not ignore the impact of these factors on the opposite sex edge.
Interpersonal relationships are complex and fluid. The Eight Characteristics of the opposite sex is only a rough speculation, and not a 100% accurate prediction of the relationship between a person and the opposite sex. Relationships involve too many factors to be encompassed by the natal chart. The eight characters are just a reference, we still need to contact and understand the opposite sex in our daily life, actively expand the social circle, enhance their own charm and attraction, in order to truly realize the good interaction with the opposite sex and get along.
In short, although the Eight Characteristics of the Opposite Sex will give us some references, we can't completely rely on it to determine the relationship between a person and the opposite sex. The actual situation may change due to personal efforts, the influence of external environment, and the complexity of interpersonal relationships. The important thing is that we have to take the initiative to expand our social circle and improve our social skills according to our actual situation and needs in order to get the real relationship with the opposite sex, not just limited to the speculation of the eight characters.
