Couples inevitably have differences in the middle, how to solve the problem can once again manage love? Marriage in the middle of the two can be carried out first eight marriage, in determining whether or not to marry, if men and women are still married to the words, how to eliminate it?
The following I analyze from the level of the eight characters of marriage, how to solve the male and female eight characters of mutual compatibility.
What does it mean that the male and female yang and yin "grams"?
Chinese traditional fortune-telling, men belong to the yang, women belong to the yin; if a woman's fate shows more elements of the yang, when she and the manhood of the man more prosperous integration of the words, then, can not do the "harmony" situation, because all the two are "just healthy" very The reason is that they are both very "strong" and heavy, and they do not complement each other. If we consider the fundamentals, we will see why some girls want to change their sex to men. Why is there lesbianism? The character who plays the role of "male" in lesbianism is usually the woman whose eight-character numerology shows more elements of Yang.
Naturally, similarly, these men with more yin elements in their Bazi Numerology will not be able to achieve "harmony" with a regular yin woman, as they are both heavy in yin, and will not be able to complement each other as well. The reason for this is that they are both very heavy. We also see some men who want to change their sex to female, and we also find that the "female" in gay men is the man who lacks masculinity.
The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty. Therefore, I would like to remind my friends that, from the perspective of yang and yin, if a man and a woman are not matched, it is obvious that one of them is going to be the one who is going to be the one who is going to be the one who is going to be the one who is not. The main manifestation is that men and women can not get along with the character, disagreements, sexual disharmony, fighting without restraint these.
What does it mean that men and women's lives "grams"?
"Gold in the sea" and "pomegranate wood" are all a kind of sixty sodium sound, is based on the person's age of birth, each means the five elements of "gold" and "wood". "Wood". According to the five elements of the gold in the wood, therefore, the blogger is worried about their own life to the husband.
Example:
A boy in September 1982, check the almanac for the year of "non-existent", is the "water" life, the Chinese zodiac sign is the dog.
A woman was born in May 1986, check the almanac for the "C Yin" year, is the "fire" life, the Chinese zodiac for the Tiger.
If this pair of men and women to be married, usually think: "their fate is not good, not good!"
The analysis of men and women in the eight signs of mutual incompatibility
1, the language expression of mutual incompatibility
For example, the husband and wife in the language of expression of mutual compatibility, we all know that the female wounded official Wang Ke husband, because the official star is a professional inhibition of the official, and the wounded official and means language expression, the woman spoke too immediately, straight-talking, or that all rely on their own mentality, regardless of the husband's experience, often complaining about their husbands, saying that their husbands weak and incompetent, and always feel that they are very good, high and mighty on their loved ones, husband listened to the mood, depressed, painful Uncomfortable, and even the human body is getting worse; this is the husband and wife in the middle of the language expression on a kind of phase.
For example, some people's eight elements of fire like water, some people's eight elements of gold weak do not like fire, this kind of aura in the inconsistency, resulting in incompatibility between fire and water, the two people meet, the main performance is very uncomfortable or uncomfortable, for example, say the words do not talk more than half a sentence ah, playing awkward chat, very bored with the appearance of these.
3, the internal contradiction
It is to understand the other party's ideas, ideals, beliefs and so on. For example, a student who failed in the college entrance examination, he would like to repeat his senior year, looking forward to enroll in a better college according to the senior year repeat, the result of his father disagreed, forced him to give up the ideal of going to college or help him choose a which technical school type of institutions, looking forward to him to randomly learn a few professional skills, read the 2 years out to make money, the result of the child does not agree, and do not dare to resist, the heart is very depressed, downcast, a few days do not eat, do not sleep, trance, and finally actually mental substance depression. Sleep, trance, and finally actually got psychosomatic depression.
4, the work of the phase on the
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is to do the advice can not be consistent, ideas can not be unified. For example, a couple in the Chinese New Year to kill chickens to worship the whole process to, the wife said that the chicken's legs should be involved in the belly to go, with two bamboo baskets to pick to worship the gods, and the husband said that the chicken's legs do not need to be involved in the belly to go, with a bamboo basket to go to worship the gods, the results of the two people argued, and eventually fought, and almost caused a fatal accident. This is also a kind of clerical incompatibility.
5, the character of the incompatibility
In fact, this kind of incompatibility, in the final analysis or the aura of inconsistency. For example, a love of speech of the wife all day and night to say a constant, but do not know that the husband is a dead brain, do not want to hear the wife rambling speech, once heard the love of speech on the disturbed, which is a character on the phase.
The fate of the husband and wife of the fate of the characteristics of the eight
This is a character trait.
1, the marriage of the Palace of life of the torture and collusion of harm
In the eight numerology, the day branch means husband and wife palace, the marriage life palace and other columns produce torture and collusion harm of course is the damage to the marriage life of the eight numerology. The most obvious one is that the criminal assessment, not to mention, is the most obvious one, then, the match, that is, the marriage life is the meaning of the combination away, is also not good. And harm, is that the marriage life is very easy to problems, easy because of the treacherous villain provoke provoke and so on the occurrence of twists and turns.
For the offense, the marriage life is especially bad in the "day and time offense". Husband and wife Palace by the time branch of the collision and move, for the instability of the marital life of the elephant; the time branch of the Lord outside, so the elements of marital instability is mostly seen in the spouse caused by an affair. In specific application, when the Sun is in conflict with the Sun Branch, the possibility of divorce due to marital discord is particularly high, accounting for about 70% of the total. It is a pattern that should not be underestimated. (Naturally, in addition to the marriage life in the eight-character fate of the Palace of the crime of collision and harm, when the Palace of marriage meets the great fortune or the flow of the year to collision, harm, torture, the marriage life is also very easy to take away, not good marriage life. (This article only say eight life, don't rarely described)
2, wealth and official situation
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The "wealth" and "official" situation (my opinion, non-professional terminology) refers to the "wealth" and "official" more pure, or "wealth" and "official" mixed situation. This varies from person to person. Male life look at the "wealth", female life look at the "official", spouse star if it is a happy god, then the positive and negative mixed, strong and meet the birth, is auspicious, if the spouse star is a taboo, then the positive and negative mixed is unlucky.
3. Too much wealth for a man and too much money for a woman.
If there are too many spouse stars, these people are usually very easy to have an affair, not good marriage life. In other words, you have to talk about love many times and fall in love many times before you can finally get married. In particular, men who have too many positive wealth stars and too many food gods and injurious officials are greedy for sex and spoil their wives and cannot be controlled automatically, so it is not easy to get married.
4, the female life of the day sitting hurt official and hurt official see official
The female natal chart refers to the female natal chart. As the "official" is the woman's husband, and the injured official gram official, the husband's palace sitting under the injured official main husband star was gram, this kind of women usually talk about the object is very harsh, is very concerned about the details, so most of the pick pick pick pick off the end of their own pick into the older female youth. Naturally, if the early marriage, most of them will be dissatisfied with their husbands, all day long cross-eyed, the risk of divorce is very high.
Hurt official see official refers to the female life as well. That is, the Lord of the day is very strong female life, the birth of the eight characters in the injury officer and the "official" star and at the same time through and no partial wealth over the solution. If a woman's injured official sees the official, she is generally not concerned enough about her husband, and is overly indifferent and cold. This kind of situation in the marriage life is certainly not satisfactory.
5, in the eight characters of the day branch sitting robbing the wealth or than robbing the heavy male life
All day column for the propylaeum, Ding Si, nonylaeum, decahai male life, it is called the day branch of the hijacking wealth. The "Cai" is the symbol of the male spouse, and if the spouse is "robbed", can the marriage life be good?
For how much is the hijacking. It's the same as above. Bijie grams of wealth, and "wealth" means the marriage life of the male life, too much Bijie, indicating that the marriage life is always a variety of problems, either the man is too irrational and easy to have domestic violence and so on, or the daughter-in-law is very easy to be other people "aiming", resulting in the marital life was "hijacked", and thus jeopardize the stability of the marriage relationship.
6, the month into the empty
The month, also known as the month of the branch, it is expressed in our marriage, if the month into the empty, the general marriage and dating are more twists and turns, difficult and multiple. If the two of them fall out of the month, it is difficult for them to get married.
7, pure yin and pure yang
This pattern is extremely rare, that is to say, the fate of the four columns of the eight words are all yin, or all yang, generally have this type of eight character life extremes, either hot temperament like gunpowder, or extremely introverted character, overly sinister and poisonous, marriage life is more difficult to find a suitable target. Unless it is a pure Yin and Yang fusion, or even if you find, the marriage is difficult to long.
8. Peach blossom luck
Peach blossom luck is the main people go peach blossom luck, peach blossom luck is too much of course, the people who are greedy for sex, of course, the harm to the marital life do not need to talk about. In addition to the partial fortune fortune star are positive edge peach blossom, other peach blossom luck like the general salty pool peach blossom, (bath) rosy peach blossom luck, peach blossom outside the wall, only need to happen more than two, China's divorce rate is very high.
9, the day pillar of the sky grams rushing, the life and death of separation
This kind of eight life situation is not as often as the original is a single look, this is the husband and wife couple two eight to carry out the marriage, the two people eight is the pattern of Tianke ground rushing, twelve heavenly stems are grams, the earth's branches are rushing, such a thing, the general fate of the teacher is to persuade couples with each other the best not to get married well. If you do love to get married, it is essential to resolve.
10, the evil "fate" multiple
The "Fate" of "Fate" is the viewpoint of "Fate of auspicious gods". Generally, it includes the mistake of yin and yang, the lone star and the widow, the day sitting on the sheep's edge, the day sitting on the Kui Gang and so on.
Yin and Yang Error: pattern for the C Zi Wu day, Ding ugly and not the day, E Yin Shen day, Xin Mao You day, Nong Chen Xu day, Dec Si Hai day.
Orphaned and widowed: pattern for the Ohio Zi-Uguchi people, see the Yin for the orphaned, see the Hundred Days for the widowed, Yin, Mao and Chen people, see the Si for the orphaned, see the ugly for the widowed, Si, Wu and Wei people, see the Shen for the orphaned, see the Chen for the widowed, the Shen You and Xu people, see the Hai for the orphaned, see the not yet for the widowed.
How to solve the husband and wife eight grams
1, to see if the preferred gods are compatible
Single people, the very first according to analyze each other's birth characters, to see if the preferred God is compatible. Choose a composition of the other party's eight characters can match, and then decide to marry them.
2, single lovers in love
But the two people fate of the phases, and very much want to get married, you can consider the temporary not to get a marriage license, do not worship heaven and earth, did not do the banquet to ease the phases, the past phases of the time period, and then do the ceremony and formalities are not too late. This is called the non-elephant solution.
3, married people who have been married to each other
As far as possible to maintain the distance between the two people, couples less room, you can weaken mutual karma. In the more obvious time period, such as one of the parties choose to travel abroad, or women to go to their mother's home for a period of time.
4, choose the more beneficial to the eight stars of the husband or wife of the place for the bedroom
For example, if your husband's star or wife's star in the eight characters is wood, you should choose the bedroom in the home furniture against the east; husband's star or wife's star is fire, choose the south; husband's star or wife's star is earth, choose the south or southwest; husband's star or wife's star is gold, choose the west; husband's star or wife's star is water, choose the north. (This method also applies to bed placement)
5、Choose to settle or work in a region that is conducive to the five elements of the Husband's or Wife's Star.
For example, if your Husband's Star or Wife's Star's five elements are fire, then you should choose to go to the coastal cities, or the warmer climate of the region to settle down or work, rather than choosing the North. For example, if your husband's star or wife's star is earth, you should choose to settle or work in the South or the Midwest; if your husband's star or wife's star is gold, you should choose the Midwest; if your husband's star or wife's star is water, you should choose the North; if your husband's star or wife's star is wood, you should choose the East.
6, as far as possible, choose to marry late and have children late
Especially when it comes to getting married only after a certain time, or after a certain time, when you want to bypass the flow year in which the husband or wife is most obvious. For example, if the information content of the eight characters indicates that there will be a more serious situation of husband-killing in 2018, you need to set up as much as possible in 2018 before you consider getting married.
7, ladies who have a more serious husband-killer, it is best not to have children in the time period of husband-killer
Because in the eight characters, the child is food, injury, injury, these two stars are immediately inhibit the husband star. If the child is born during the period of husband's grudge, then the star of food and injury will actually strengthen the energy of conservatism and expand the energy of husband's grudge.
8, the application of religious beliefs supernatural power
For example, Taoist charms to resolve the temperament of the wife or husband.
9. One should always maintain an optimistic mindset
Use your own positive social energy to solve the energy of the husband or wife, on the contrary, you have a poor state of mind every day, these negative temperament, will intensify the energy of your spouse grams, inch by inch.
10, the application of feng shui conditioning method
According to the use of feng shui toning, improve and enhance the home furniture feng shui environment, pattern Wang Husband star or Wang Wife star feng shui array, in order to solve the weakening of the home furniture feng shui in the negative temperament of the Kehuo or Kehuo wife, you can greatly weaken the life of the hazards of the Kehuo spouse.
Summary: When two of the same eight people in the single before, the luck of the fierce towards the same place similar to many, like the year should be good, the same year should be bad, the same year to go to school, the same year, the same year, the wealth leakage of the father of these. Once married, the difference between each other's fortunes will be relatively significant, such as the birth of a child age is likely to be different, the fate of the divorce age is not necessarily the same. This is because, although the two people have the same eight characters, but the eight characters of the spouse is not completely the same, the temperament is not the same, the mutual influence, so that the difference in fortune. Therefore, according to the eight characters to regulate people's married life is feasible.
