[Pleasing yourself]. These four words are so trendy today. But when you read it, it is only four words, but when you do it, it seems to be a thousand times more difficult.
The master's friend used to say to the master's family: "The outside is all a projection of the essence, and the kind of people you hate the most is an indication that this is the one that you can't be pleased with yourself the most.
People first from a test to see what you in the end with what people can not pass it:
1. If you and the potty friend detailed introduction of a The first time you meet with a "passerby", you are most resistant to the other party:
A: grabbing the speech, oily, you as an audience
A: grabbing the speech, oily, you as an audience
A: grabbing the speech, oily, you as an audience >B: actively close to me, pat your shoulder, with you as a brother
C: and you are very rusty, lack of atmosphere
D: Constantly asking you personally difficult questions, like a stature research
Reference answer analysis:
A:
You are also someone who resents being an audience member, and to put it bluntly, you hate being in a situation where you are always in the middle of a poo-poo of a social interaction. In social social psychology, a person's dominance and length of speech predicts the level of the person's temperament. If the person meets on the clamor to talk, you as a mute audience, that is to express this person is to use you as a special tool for emotional venting, or that is to say that you want to start to pressure you can not move, so that you understand his interests. The fact that you can resist this kind of person is also an expression that you are always unwilling to be pushed down by others in terms of vigor, or else that you do not expect others to disregard your right to speak. Therefore, your opponents will be those who are oratorical or those who do not allow you to express your opinion. Especially in the case of those kind of oily people, more to give you the feeling that the other party is not reliable, and then meet again, you will not be easy to give them a good look, so your opponent has been raised one.
If a person jeopardizes your mindset, your focus should be on managing your own mindset, not on the hands of the person who jeopardizes your mindset. Only then can you be truly confident.
When it comes to emotions, sometimes, people think that a failed emotion, an action is not successful. The primary conditions will all be outside. But here are two sage discussions that keep the emotion is not rotten enthusiasm, but just created on its own confidence. "The seduction, the affair are not difficult, the opponent is almost entirely itself." Come along for the ride and watch the fun.
B:
Your precautionary awareness of the state of mind is relatively strong, for the passer-by you can not take the initiative to want to pull away, because you are for their own solutions The work ability for your own self-confidence, for other people's self-confidence is also insufficient, therefore, you can not help but reject others at the beginning of the invasion of your private sphere, and also not through your willingness to touch our body. Therefore, you can resist him at first, and you can't help but feel that he doesn't value your thoughts and consciousness to understand you, that it's a kind of damage, and in your mind you will certainly include him in the category of people different from you, that is to say, he will be included in the team of your opponents. It can be inferred that your rivals are generally all those who have a tendency to be arrogant and do not attach importance to you. In order to reduce your rivals, sometimes you do not have to reflect too much, perhaps others do not have a willful, just more atmospheric personality, rude only.
If a person jeopardizes your mentality, your focus should be put on the management of their own mentality, and not jeopardize your mentality of the hands of the person. Only then can you be truly confident.
When it comes to emotions, sometimes, people think that a failed emotion, an action is not successful. The primary conditions will all be outside. But here are two sage discussions that keep the emotion is not rotten enthusiasm, just created on their own confidence. "The seduction, the affair are not difficult, the opponent is almost entirely itself." Come along for the ride and watch the fun.
c:
You're also someone who is calm in nature but fills your heart with ambition. You want a complete interpersonal communication, would like to create a good point of contact with the passers-by, but you always feel positive to talk to others is very hurt your self-esteem, to put it bluntly, you are the kind of people who feel that they have a high degree of their own elegance, but this is only your own hope, the experience of other people will be different from yours. Therefore, when you come across this kind of situation, you will not take the initiative to put your own hope in the hands of others, and if others can't perform according to your hope, it will cause resistance to the other party. As a result, your subjective hopes can easily offend and make you enemies. Therefore, if you have an opponent, you should reflect on yourself to see if you are easily offended.
If a person is jeopardizing your mindset, your focus should be on managing your own mindset, not on the person who is jeopardizing your mindset. Only then can you be truly confident.
When it comes to emotions, sometimes, people think that a failed emotion, an action is not successful. The primary conditions will all be outside. But here are two sage discussions that keep the emotion is not rotten enthusiasm, just created on their own confidence. "The seduction, the affair are not difficult, the opponent is almost entirely itself." Come along for the ride and watch the fun.
D:
You're also someone who is slightly closed off to yourself and would like to enjoy a little more privacy. So you can feel pressured to deal with these types of people who want to manipulate others. This kind of people actually just want to know more about you, want to give you a deeper grasp in a very short period of time. However, if he simply said, without showing his background, or not allow you to cross-examine, it implies that he is a very controlling person.
If a person is jeopardizing your mindset, your focus should be on managing your own mindset, not on the hands of the person who is jeopardizing your mindset. Only then can you be truly confident.
When it comes to emotions, sometimes, people think that a failed emotion, an action is not successful. The primary conditions will all be outside. But here are two sage discussions that keep the emotion is not rotten enthusiasm, just created on their own confidence. "The seduction, the affair are not difficult, the opponent is almost entirely itself." Come along for the ride and watch the fun.
